Every year, usually around the holidays, I watch one of my favorite movies, “Love Actually,” a sappily sweet yet sometimes heart-wrenching story of eight couples in various stages of their relationships. But, as the years go on, the opening lines of the film still hit home:
“Whenever I get gloomy with the state of the world, I think about the arrivals gate at Heathrow Airport. General opinion’s starting to make out that we live in a world of hatred and greed, but I don’t see that. It seems to me that love is everywhere. Often, it’s not particularly dignified or newsworthy, but it’s always there — fathers and sons, mothers and daughters, husbands and wives, boyfriends, girlfriends and old friends.”
So, for this coming month, I’d love to shine a light on love and all the different forms it can take: love for one’s family, friends and pets, romantic love and love for oneself. Because, like the movie says, if you look for it, “love is actually all around.”
Whatever comes to mind, I’d love to know. Please make it a six-word story, a personal short story, with a beginning, middle and end.
Make us laugh or cry or at the least feel something. For an example, here is the famous story attributed to, but not proven to be written by, Ernest Hemingway: “For sale: baby shoes, never worn.” That’s quite the story! Need more examples? “It can’t be. I’m a virgin,” writes Kate Atkinson. “Set sail, great storm, all lost,” says John Banville.
If you want your story to run in the IJ, please:
• Write “Six-word story” in the subject line
• Send one six-word story. Just one
• Include your full name and Marin town in the body of the email, no attachments
• Write your short story in the body of the email, no attachments
• Use proper punctuation and spelling
• Use sentence style in one line
• Do not submit six adjectives — that’s not a story
Please send to lifestyles@marinij.com by Feb. 14 and look for it in the Feb. 25 lifestyles section and online.
Recently, we asked IJ readers to share some advice. Here’s what they had to say.
Take a hike. Nature is healing. — Richard Schneider, San Rafael
Love one another, from George Harrison. — Sam Fleeger, Marin City
Make hanger handles face the wall. — Pam Lunstead, Novato
The work starts now. Midterms coming. — Barbara Rowe, Mill Valley
Nothing left to do but smile. — Melissa Daly, San Rafael
Maybe it’s a blessing in disguise. — Leslie White, Larkspur
The tail doesn’t wag the pony. — Karen Arnold, San Rafael
America First has been defeated before. — Lois Wise, Novato
Each day is the most important. — David Reinstein, San Anselmo
Que sera, sera; what will be? — Mary Ann Gallardo, San Rafael
From Dad: “Nobody likes free advice.” — Diane Cokely, San Anselmo
Burden too heavy? Ask for help. — Lynn Harrison, San Rafael
Hire a trainer and lift weights. — Linda Varonin, Corte Madera
No smoking, it’s bad for lungs. — Penny Kweder, Mill Valley
Always keep your sense of humor. — Patrick Kaye, Novato
Smile — warmest thing to put on. — Kathy Slaught, Larkspur
Follow your inclinations, abilities and desires. — Dr. Hank Simmonds, Kentfield
Never forget to say thank you. — Tom McAfee, Fairfax
Spend inheritance traveling, see the world. — Ardath Steves, Mill Valley
Have the courage to seek help. — Elaine C. Johnson, Greenbrae
“Tomorrow is not promised,” therapist advised. — Susan Storch, Greenbrae
Listen way more than you talk. — James Petray, Novato
My dear grandfather said, “Take typing.” — Ann Woodward, Greenbrae
Life is a two-way street. — Cynthia Samson, Mill Valley
You always have a choice. — Arthur Silberman, San Rafael
Husband’s best advice: just pace yourself. — Phoebe Moyer, Greenbrae
Learn new things! Toss humor around! — Nancy Greenfield, Larkspur
Explore the transformative power of optimism! — Lorraine Peters, San Rafael
Keep left arm straight. Follow through. — Ian Begg, Corte Madera
Listen, love, forget, forgive; start today. — Chrissy von Atzigen Sugrue, Corte Madera
Daddy fixed armwrestling match; never bet! — Lucille Herger, Novato
My advice: Buy low. Sell high. — Mark Hudson, Mill Valley
Start low, climb high, good luck. — Mark Friedeberg, San Anselmo
Mom said, “When in doubt, don’t.” — Helen Hayes, Ross
Life ain’t fair. Deal with it. — Shirley McGrath, Santa Venetia
Listen way more than you talk. — James Petray, Novato
Accept help when offered to you. — Cece Jonsen, Novato
Embrace life by applauding each day. — Sean Daunt, Fairfax
Friendship a fruit that ripens slowly. — Ed Ryken, Novato
Job worth doing? Do it well. — Jim Koger, San Rafael
Stop yearning; enjoy what you have. — Bob Chilvers, Mill ValleyNever too late to be happy. — Laura Call, San Anselmo
Don’t sweat the truly small stuff! — Jonathan London, Novato
Keep opportunities open, always say yes. — Tom Eller, Woodacre
Be kind. Give of self. Love. — Nancy DePue-Allen, Greenbrae
Everything worthwhile in life takes work. — Kristi Beale, San Rafael
Gentlemen are never in a hurry. — Jon Fox, San Rafael
Time is your most valuable resource. — Michael J. Mandelbrot, Novato
Have positive attitude full of gratitude. — Ann Troy, San Anselmo
Take it easy, but take it! — Dave Gilbert, Santa Venetia
My dad: There’s always the unexpected. — Gail Cassee, Mill Valley
Always move forward; don’t step backwards. — Frieda W. Zolan, San Rafael
Keep your eyes on the road. — Kate Brouillet, Novato
Find what you love. Do it. — Rich Panter, Novato
Accelerate lightly after entering a curve. — Suzanne Egan, Mill Valley
It won’t always hurt this bad. — Janice Kohnhorst, San Rafael
Letting people be wrong about you. — Glynda Christian, Novato
Learn the names of your staff. — Norman Shore, Mill Valley
Dad: “Buy house, not new car.” — Larry Bogel, Novato
To thine own self be true. — Newton Harband, San Rafael
Dad told me the Golden Rule. — Diane Forster, Corte Madera
Care deeply, and care with compassion. — Cherstin Nash, Mill Valley
To drive defensively from my father. — Nancy Altman, San Anselmo
At least one doily per household. — Cynthia Sapp, Terra Linda
Treat everyone the same with respect. — Robert B. Schoene, Kentfield
Life’s easier with accountability and gratitude. — Laura Miller, Novato
Follow your heart for life’s truth. — Antoinette DeLucchi, San Rafael
Imagine yourself walking in their shoes. — Bob Simon, Larkspur
Always assume good intentions. Be kind. — Kathie Meier, Greenbrae
Don’t sweat the truly small stuff! — Jonathan London, Novato
“It is later than you think!” — Priscilla Troy, Woodacre
Let go! Forgive everyone, especially yourself. — Gailya Magdalena, Lucas Valley
Marry someone who elicits your best. — Kent Royle, Santa Venetia
Ma says, “This too shall pass.” — Bennett King, Sausalito
Walk softly and carry a broomstick. — Kermit R. Kubitz, Larkspur
She suggested: stand tall, practice compassion. — Billie Forer, San Rafael
Grandpa: “Always vote! It’s your right!” — Arlene Hansen, Novato
Shikan taza just sitting every day. — Trout Black, San Rafael
Grandpa’s advice: firm handshake, eye contact. — Francine Goodman, Mill Valley
Save our wondrous Earth, live simply. — Esther Cherk, Mill Valley
Be present to what you do. — Gail Priestley, Marin City
“Find happiness in every day.” — Mom. — Marcia Naomi Berger, San Rafael
Mad? Act! Designate your IRS spending. — Dart Cherk, Mill Valley
Cheap, fast, high quality. Pick two. — Janice Kuhl, San Rafael
Love thy neighbor. Stop blowing leaves. — Mary Geving, Woodacre
Make a smart woman your wife. — Xavier de la Prade, Petaluma
Angry? Say nothing, and chop wood. — Ann Seramin, San Geronimo
No answer is an answer too. — Christine Heilmann, San Anselmo
Your self-worth is self-inflicted. — Dave Powell, Novato
Open, listen, understand, let it go. — Ron Skellenger, Woodacre
Play good, play hard, have fun! — Janice Burke, Novato
No one can take your education. — Dr. Cheryl Tanasovich, Larkspur
Don’t be afraid to marry him! — Loulie H. Sutro, Kentfield
Use your own creativity, not ChatGPT. — Kendall Johnson, Larkspur
Learn to rest, not give up. — Erik Schmitz, Novato
Steady at the helm; storms pass! — Jane Ferguson, Mill Valley
Save 10 percent of each paycheck. — Ray Nottingham, Mill Valley
Acknowledge your feelings — follow your values. — Lisa Pepper-Satkin, Novato
Let enemies go their own way. — Janet Lee Benjamin, Tiburon
Embrace gratitude, live connected and brave. — Katherine Ware, Kentfield
Ability to forgive, such a gift! — Evelyn Riebe, Mill Valley
Retire? Start Tax Sheltered Annuity, now! — Philip Hicks, San Anselmo
Best to underpromise and to overdeliver. — Renee Lister, Corte Madera
Enjoy each day, they go fast. — Ralph Mason, Larkspur
Best advice, it’s all about attitude. — Judy Ziegler, San Rafael
Be nice on the way up. — Gary Novack, San Rafael
Hiking Whitney: start slow, back off. — Kay Edwards, Novato
Father: “Be just like your mother.” — Gigi Zavagno, Novato
Think. Sit up straight. Pay attention. — Dennis Brouillet, Novato
First, stay in school, get stronger. — Dr. Angelo Capozzi, Tiburon
Exploring near and far with spouse. — Madeline Kellner, Novato
Rocker: set design plant, don’t smoke. — Cassidy Juniors, Los Angeles
Goodness and kindness overshadow all else. — Therese Stawowy, San Rafael
Every big change takes two weeks. — Victoria Worch, Novato
Way. Truth. Life. Jesus. Yeshua. Messiah. — Gigi Bibeault, Terra Linda
Slow down. Take time to think. — Kristi Denton Cohen, Mill Valley
Die young, leave good-looking corpse. — David Curtis, Novato
Please don’t believe everything you think. — Tom Allen, Ross
Plant the seeds, grow the garden. — Sharon Eide, Novato