


I was totally caught off guard when, about a month ago, I got an email that Sylvia Jones, a longtime teacher in Marin — and who taught yours truly at Redwood High School — had died at age 88.
A former student, Ted Kniesche, wanted to pay tribute to her and what he’d taken from his time with her in Redwood’s journalism program. His words echoed sentiments I too felt; besides my parents, she was the first person to nurture and cheerlead my love of journalism, pushing me to be the best I could be.
A few years into working at the IJ, she wrote to me that she was happy to see I had landed at the IJ and she was happily following my work — that will always stick with me.
With this in mind, I’d love to know about your mentors, or the people who have inspired you along the way. Maybe it’s your parents or a teacher or an author, artist or other creative you’ve never met before but whose work resonated with you. What did they teach you? What sticks with you? Whoever or whatever comes to mind, I’d love to know.
Please make it a six-word story, a personal short story, with a beginning, middle and end.
Make us laugh or cry or at the least feel something. For an example, here is the famous story attributed to, but not proven to be written by, Ernest Hemingway: “For sale: baby shoes, never worn.” That’s quite the story! Need more examples? “It can’t be. I’m a virgin,” writes Kate Atkinson. “Set sail, great storm, all lost,” says John Banville.
If you want your story to run in the IJ, please:
• Write “Six-word story” in the subject line
• Send one six-word story. Just one
• Include your full name and Marin town in the body of the email, no attachments
• Write your short story in the body of the email, no attachments
• Use proper punctuation and spelling
• Use sentence style in one line
• Do not submit six adjectives — that’s not a story
Please send to lifestyles@marinij.com by April 18 and look for it in the April 29 lifestyles section and online.
Recently, we asked IJ readers to share their good dates and the ones they’d, well, like to forget. Here’s what they had to say.
No Name Bar: Like Chinese food? — Philip Hicks, San Anselmo and Mt. Desert, Maine
Chez Panisse served delicious Bahri dates. — Linda Varonin, Corte Madera
First date, 30-year marriage followed. — Richard Schneider, San Rafael
Then, dancing; now, coffee, good conversations! — Nancy Greenfield, Larkspur
Two warm, open hearts radiating love. — Maynard Brusman, San Anselmo
Blind date made me pay half. — Mary Ann Gallardo, San Rafael
Pizza dinner. Proposal. Married 64 years! — Dara Moskowitz, Terra Linda
Sadie Hawkins dance. He said, “Yes”! — Penny Kweder, Mill Valley
Can’t be printed in family newspaper! — Evelyn Riebe, Mill Valley
In heels, on back of Vespa! — Ann Woodward, Greenbrae
Are you free now and forever? — Peter Hayward, Novato
May 3, 1980: Best date ever. Still married. — Sandy Magid, Novato
Dancing to Roberta Flack with Barbara. — Sam Fleeger, Marin City
Ice skating. Fracture. No second date. — Adrian Quince, Novato
1959 prom, dead battery, I pushed. — Sharon Eide, Novato
First date, first kiss, first bliss. — Sara Gordon, San Rafael
50th reunion: rekindled an old love. — Dave Powell, Novato
Bowling with redhead; best man ever. — Diane Cokely, San Anselmo
China Camp; hiking, sunset, sleepover. — David Curtis, Novato
Electric blind date, happily married afterwards. — Marty Barry, Novato
Blind date, married for 64 years. — Marilyn DeMartini, San Rafael
Ceramic artist’s show yields family discount. — David Gilbert, Santa Venetia
Blind date, but I knew him! — Mary Ann Farnsworth, Novato
Marin County Fair. Sparks and fireworks. — Scott Kempf, Novato
Attended the philharmonics by sprinter limo. — Lorraine Peters, San Rafael
Ice skating, nasty fall, he laughed. — Laura Call, San Anselmo
Our wedding day, best date ever. — Rip Anzalone, Novato
Dressed pink, in love, couldn’t eat. — Sue Curran, San Rafael
Waterskiing mishap, broken femur, not sexy. — Sarah Weller Leipsic, San Rafael
Dancing without music at Coit Tower. — Caroline Fromm Lurie, Ross
She glowed on stage, future wife. — Michael C. Vogel, Mill Valley
She arrived late. Turned, and left. — Larry Martinez, San Anselmo
Eighth grader. First date. Kiss refused! — Thomas Moore, Mill Valley
He bought the band at closing. — Judy Valentine, Greenbrae
Blind date, dead body at restaurant. — Patrick Ritter, San Rafael
Manoa Falls chance meeting, surfing, married. — Kent Royle, Santa Venetia
Friend’s blind date became my wife. — John M. King, San Rafael
First date, first kiss, interrupted laughing. — Ed Ryken, Novato
Red Boy Pizza with “No Socks.” — Berta Bickel, Lagunitas
“Favorite band?” “Steely Dan.” “Marry me.” — Rob Sundberg, Novato
Our life together, best date ever! — Joan Watson, Mill Valley
Went camping. One tent or two? — Stephen Schmid, San Rafael
Music, dancing, laughter. A great date! — Cece Jonsen, Novato
Out sailing, wind died. Love bloomed. — David Hirzel, San RafaelDance party. Four ask-outs. One keeper. — April Orcutt, San Anselmo
Fourth date Paris. Happily ever after. — Bonnie Brown, San Rafael
I would not kiss an ashtray. — Mary Lou Hayward, Novato
Backpacking in Yosemite carrying a cabbage. — Madeline Kellner, Novato
Warm eyes, soft fur, heart melted. — Katherine Ware, Kentfield
Getting baptized was a memorable date! — Gigi Bibeault, Terra Linda
My date didn’t pay his half. — Heike Dittrich-Kruljac, Corte Madera
Forty-four years ago, Mount Burdell hike. — Nancy Rademacher, Corte Madera
Playland. He threw up on me. — Susan Storch, Greenbrae
She dumped me on my birthday. — David Leipsic, San Rafael
“Did you kill him?” he asked. — Cerridwen Fallingstar, San Geronimo
Most memorable? April 3, Adi’s birthday! — Ron Skellenger, Woodacre
Separately celebrating three ladies’ 100th birthdays. — Michael Ardito, Fairfax
Married sophisticate homemaking, dried up graduating. — Cassidy Juniors, Los Angeles
Said no to plaster caster successfully. — Jack Robison, Los Angeles
Universal Studios, acid, then Joni Mitchell. — Tom Eller, Woodacre
Invited to Annapolis graduation ball — lightning! — Lucille Herger, Novato
Feb. 18, 1966 is the day we met. — Michael Wanger, Kentfield
Campus queen, Corvette and Carmel feast. — Ray Lorber, San Rafael
Group dating preferred Goldenaires Lion King. — Karen Arnold, San Rafael
My birthday, Tony Bennett, Venetian Room. — Cindy Landi, Novato
Sept. 29, 1972, you’re drafted Army. — Robert Limacher, Novato
First date I ate was 1956. — Bruce Donals, Fairfax
Broadway date. Forgot tickets. Got married. — Micha Berman, San Anselmo
Love in Presidio; then police arrived. — David H. Bremer, Lucas Valley
Magical meeting; friend from the past. — Linda Denhart, San Rafael
Quiet guy. No conversation. Married him. — Doreen Malin, Ross
Hansom cab ride in Central Park. — Joyce Crews, Mill Valley
Shall we dance: 62 years married. — Diane Ryken, Novato
Hayride age 15; married age 56. — Jay Ripps, Mill Valley
SF dinner al fresco; pyrotechnics convention display! — Lisa Wolcott, Fairfax
Chose recipe, shopped, cooked, dined together. — Candy Jordan, Novato
Both had braces: Kiss didn’t work. — David Reinstein, San Anselmo
All blind dates were excruciating experiences. — Pamela Lunstead, Novato
First date ski weekend, romance ensued. — Lois Wise, Novato
Morning coffee at Taste of Rome. — Barbara Rowe, Mill Valley
Upgraded strangers, redeye revelations, seatmates forever. — Jack Percelay and Barbara Barrielle, Mill Valley
Entered, saw him, later married him! — Billie Forer, San Rafael
Full moon, slurping oysters, forever married. — Gretchen Alden, San Anselmo
He really forgot our first date. — Janice Kohnhorst, San Rafael
You have to hear this song. — Victoria Worch, Novato
Handsome Beirut boyfriend, dance evening, LaCave. — Gailya Magdalena, Lucas Valley
He offered to blow my leaves. — Mary Geving, Woodacre
He asked, she agreed, they wed. — Hank Simmonds, Kentfield
Husband, pace me over Hope Pass. — Ana Levaggi, Mill Valley
I first heard I love you. — Bridget Wilson, San Rafael
Single mom: two or six kids. — Robert C. Finston, San Rafael and Carson City, Nevada
A date to hate: no show. — Olivia Ruel, San Rafael
Mr. and Mrs. after double dating. — Diane Forster, Corte Madera