Dear Abby >> I’m a 23-year-old college student struggling to find direction in life. I’ve been trying to find a part-time job and an internship, but I have had no success. This leaves me increasingly anxious, especially as my parents, who currently help me with tuition and rent, are getting older and can’t continue working much longer.

Adding to my stress, my chosen field is considered unique in my culture, where people are often stereotyped into specific roles. This makes it harder for me to find opportunities or build connections. On top of that, I’m adjusting to a new culture that’s the opposite of what I’m used to. It’s my first time navigating such an environment, and I often feel left out or that I don’t fully understand certain things.

I’m afraid to bring this up with my parents, as it’s common in my culture for parents to provide for their children. I feel like I’m falling behind. Feeling confused and misunderstood, my mind is at a crossroads, which adds to my anxiety. How can I start to find clarity and confidence in my situation?

— A Bit Lost in Colorado

Dear A bit lost >> Many students find it difficult to adjust to college life. The fact that you come from another culture only adds to that. Try reaching out to the dean of your department or talking to an adviser in the student counseling services to find the help you’re looking for. If there are other students from your culture, they may also be able to help by explaining things to you. Do these things, and you may find out that you are not as lost as you fear you are.

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