San Rafael, CA

Herman Gracen Fruchtenicht, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, and friend, passed away on January 24, 2025, at the age of 83, in San Rafael, California.

Herman was born on April 11, 1941, in French Camp, California. Herman was a devoted husband to Patricia, with whom he shared 55 years of marriage. He was aproud father to his children, Tara Lytle and Ryan Fruchtenicht, and a cherished father-in-law to Spencer Lytle and Karen Turner Fruchtenicht. His joy expanded with the arrival of his grandson, Tiernan Fruchtenicht, and his step-granddaughters, Tristen and Ruby Lytle. Herman is predeceased by his parents Herman Daniel Fruchtenicht and Grace Ryan Fruchtenicht, his brother Arthur Staring, sister in law Bobbie Staring, their son Steven Staring, and his uncle Harold Ryan and aunt Phyllis Ryan. He is survived by his sister in law Phyllis Petrillo, nephew Tim Staring, niece Kathleen Staring, and many nieces, nephews, and cousins.

After earning a BA in Economics from San Francisco State University, Herman served his country as a paratrooper with the 82nd Airborne Division of the U.S. Army, exemplifying the courage and dedication that would define his later years. He then embarked on a distinguished 33-year career with the San Francisco Police Department, retiring as a Sergeant in 2003.

Herman was a long time resident of Fairfax, California. He was a member of numerous clubs and organizations including the Native Sons of the Golden West (Fairfax #307), the Marin Rod &Gun Club, and the Elks Lodge (San Rafael #1108). He was an avid 49er fan and enjoyed season tickets for many years.

Herman was known for his generous spirit and unwavering commitment to helping others. Whether through his work, his family, or his friendships, he always put others first and was asource of love and support to everyone who knew him. His legacy of warmth, integrity, and service will be forever cherished by all who were fortunate enough to know him.

A funeral mass will be held February 7th, 2025 at 11am at St. Rita’s Church in Fairfax, CA. In lieu of flowers, the family requests scholarship donations in his memory to the Native Sons of the Golden West, 135 Mitchell Drive, Fairfax, CA 94930, Attn: Scholarship Committee.

Assisted by Monte’s Chapel of the Hills, San Anselmo, CA.