


I recently combed through my family’s cookbook, a white binder full of recipes that my parents have collected over the years. Some are torn out of magazines, others are written on scraps of paper, from a yellowing DMV envelope to stationary from my mom’s old job. It’s been nine years since my mom died, but I still feel her through her food and the stories we share about her while eating it around the dining room table.
Some people eat to live and others live to eat. I’m the latter. Food has always felt special to me. I love what it can symbolize: tradition, community, comfort and exploration. It’s amazing how one dish can be made so many ways depending on who’s cooking it, how much you can learn about someone through food and how cooking can be a way to show someone you care.
With food on the brain — great, now I’m hungry — let’s talk about it. What’s your favorite meal? What are your family traditions surrounding food? Do you like to cook? What special memories do you have with food?
Whatever comes to mind, I’d love to know.
Please make it a six-word story, a personal short story, with a beginning, middle and end.
Make us laugh or cry or at the least feel something. For example, here is the famous story attributed to, but not proven to be written by, Ernest Hemingway: “For sale: baby shoes, never worn.” That’s quite the story! Need more examples? “It can’t be. I’m a virgin,” writes Kate Atkinson. “Set sail, great storm, all lost,” says John Banville.
If you want your story to run in the IJ, please:
• Write “Six-word story” in the subject line
• Send one six-word story. Just one
• Include your full name and Marin town in the body of the email, no attachments
• Write your short story in the body of the email, no attachments
• Use proper punctuation and spelling
• Use sentence style in one line
• Do not submit six adjectives — that’s not a story
Please send to lifestyles@marinij.com by May 16 and look for it in the May 27 lifestyles section and online.
Recently, we asked IJ readers to share who or what has inspired them. Here’s what they had to say.
Retired social worker, thanks sociology professor. — Richard Schneider, San Rafael
Santa Sabina — silence, Harriet, Susannah — thanks. — Linda Enders, San Rafael
Long-lost relatives sharing love and ideas. — Christine von Atzigen Sugrue, Corte Madera
Inspired by Richard Powers’ book “Overstory.” — Bev Ripps, Mill Valley
She danced; I listened. I taught. — Frieda W. Zolan, San Rafael
Mom always lived the golden rule. — Janet Lee Benjamin, Tiburon
Purcell always believed in me — wow! — Gretchen Davidson, Mill Valley
Demanding theater directors inspired successful career. — Phoebe Moyer, Greenbrae
Beatles sing love, hope, peace. Imagine! — April Orcutt, San Anselmo
Parents inspired embracing our Mexican heritage. — Mary Ann Gallardo, San Rafael
Chick Corea liked my playing — damn! — Craig Whatley, San Rafael
Girl Scoutmaster Horsfall: camping and volunteering. — Diane Cokely, San Anselmo
Teacher, veteran taught value of service. — Kermit R. Kubitz, Larkspur
Roger Tatarian, journalism professor’s national legacy. — Michael Ardito, Fairfax
“Flash” Basham inspired my running life. — David Leipsic, San Rafael
My college art professor, Will Kern. — Sam Fleeger, Marin City
Meaningful pain. Careful help. Thank you. — Marian Huntington, Novato
Teacher saw specialness in me. Emboldening! — Jenny Wood, Mill Valley
Dad’s advice was usually right on. — Hank Simmonds, Kentfield
Mentor: the person who invented Mentos. — Bruce Donals, Fairfax
Wrestling coach Reilly: “Pain is good.” — Jim Koger, San Rafael
I met my wife: Life bloomed! — David Reinstein, San Anselmo
My inspiration: charismatic Girl Scout leader. — Sue Beittel, San Rafael
MG-TD began blissful 65-year marriage. — Ray Taylor, Mill Valley
Teaching recommended by Mom — I quit. — Pamela Lunstead, Novato
Stay socially, physically and intellectually active. — Bob Chilvers, Mill Valley
Parents would conquer world for decency. — Karen Arnold, San Rafael
Flying career, inspired by travel author. — Gailya Magdalena, Lucas Valley
Nursing instructor: Gigi will witness autopsy! — Gigi Zavagno, Novato
Ellen Duncan inspired love of biology. — Ginger Souders-Mason, Kentfield
Len and Kuzma taught fine carpentry. — Tom Eller, Woodacre
Mrs. Horler made me feel special. — Joan Lubamersky, Larkspur
Mom, Willie Mays fueled baseball love. — David Curtis, Novato
Seventh-grade Latin teacher ignited my language-love. — Ann Woodward, Greenbrae
Husband John helps make dreams happen. — Linda Varonin, Corte Madera
My parents were my biggest mentors. — Heike Dittrich-Kruljac, Corte Madera
School teachers: terrific. Six uncles: superb. — Therese Stawowy, San Rafael
Carmen Lynch taught me couples therapy. — Marcia Naomi Berger, San Rafael
Blank paper; choices write our destiny. — Noreen Hook, San Rafael
Parents came with nothing and prospered. — Elaine Goldman, San Rafael
Anna, Pat, Osha: intend enlightenment, open. — Ron Skellenger, Woodacre
Share experiences, will come back tenfold. — Michael Burkell, Mill Valley
Gail: an inspiring, persevering, gracious friend! — Claudia Lowder, Mill ValleyPractice makes permanent, composition, perspective, color. — Pat Bohm, San Rafael
Cate Blanchett trashing inconsiderate, leaf-blowing neighbors. — Mary Geving, Woodacre
BEAR League teaches coexistence, not killing. — Evelyn Riebe, Mill Valley
One-room schoolhouse, nurtured by Mrs. Baldwin. — Diane Ryken, Novato
Presidents who aren’t walking constitutional crises. — Tom Allen, Ross
Exemplifying and exuding what they taught. — Beth Zamichow, San Rafael
Dr. Bill Walsh, Project HOPE founder. — Wally Chipman, Terra Linda
Mrs. Stires inspired seven of us. — Patrick Ritter, San Rafael
My mother taught me so much. — Cece Jonsen, Novato
Best friend’s mom; skydiving at 90! — Mary Beth Baker, San Anselmo
Mario Andretti’s advice: “Know the variables.” — David Simerly, Mill Valley
Doug: inspiring leader, kindhearted, beloved, treasured. — Larie Flaherty, Mill Valley, on behalf of Doug’s fan club
Caring colleague, uplifting friend, supportive mentor. — Elisa LoCurto Charne, Novato
Mothers, who bravely face challenging times. — Karen Zizzo Kempf, Novato
Polonius, Kobun, Zazen, Tomas, Hikuri, Silvia. — Trout Black, San Rafael
Professors, teachers, loving friends, children, family. — Antoinette DeLucchi, San Rafael
Teatime with Stephanie = publish my book! — Maura Harvey, San Rafael
Dimitri, your creativity, dedication inspire us. — Mary Klem, San Rafael
Drake High teachers: Hecomovich, Jaloff, exceptional. — Carolyn Smith, San Rafael
Grandma opened my eyes to faith. — Dave Powell, Novato
Aunt taught sewing; instilled fashion creativity. — Lucille Herger, Novato
Pastor Jung — how to serve others. — Sharon Eide, Novato
Unique, talented Mom joyously treasured life. — Jeri Sternenberg, Mill Valley
Her magic hands calmed aching muscles. — Marty Barry, Novato
“There’s no time like the present.” — Bill Higgins, Fairfax
Became teacher, inspired by educator mother. — Lucy MacSwain, San Rafael
Bill Wilson. Doctor Bob. Thank God! — Gigi Bibeault, Terra Linda
Forty years nurturing preschoolers, Mrs. Parker. — Gretchen Alden, San Anselmo
Fast cars, motors, horsepower, sunset boys. — George Cammas, Novato
Dad, full of life, my inspiration. — Larie Flaherty, Mill Valley
Each of my mentors was Scandinavian. — Carole Bonhomme, Greenbrae
“You Go Girl” Falkirk Cultural Center. — Judith Selby Lang, Forest Knolls
My flute teacher: taught, listened, loved. — Karla Kvam, San Rafael
Inspirational hometown nurses. Became registered nurse. — Ann D. Davis, Tiburon
Muir, Darwin, Thoreau: inspired young naturalist. — Kurt Rademacher, Corte Madera
Didn’t do as advised — succeeded nevertheless. — David Gilbert, Santa Venetia
Kindness and service — my parents’ legacy. — Christine Heilmann, San Anselmo
“Can-do” optimism; FDR inspired father! — Dart Cherk, Mill Valley
She met, trained, hired, married me. — Noel Dean Robertson, Fairfax