Dear Abby >> At 63, I am the youngest sister of four siblings. We grew up in the turmoil of Dad’s alcoholism and hoarding, as well as physical and emotional abuse from both our parents.

One of my sisters, “June,” was sexually assaulted by my brother. She’s 71 now and hasn’t worked since she was in her early 30s. She supports herself on Social Security and a pension from her ex-husband. Her ex-husband recently passed away, and the pension stopped. She now expects my sister and me to pay her rent because she’s “too old to be working anymore.”

Abby, June is perfectly capable of getting a part-time job. She refuses to apply for anything despite my telling her I will pay her rent for only two more months. My other sister, “Lisa,” is guilting me by saying “we don’t want to see her on the street.”

I’m about to retire after working 48 years. I worked two jobs until I was 52. I’m extremely angry about the situation. Although I can afford it, I don’t feel it should be my responsibility because June won’t make any effort to help herself. Advice?

— Sibling Drama in New York

Dear Sibling drama >> Schedule a family discussion for yourself and your two sisters. At that time, tell them you are willing to help June and, IF she gets a part-time job, you would be willing to pay PART of her rent IF Lisa will split the cost with you. Do this only if both your sisters are willing to make it a joint effort.

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— Love, Abby

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