Soquel

He was a teacher. That is how Jerry wanted to be remembered.

Teaching was his passion. But, while a no more truthful statement could be made of him -for he could not resist the impulse to impart his knowledge and insights to anyone who would listen -this was not his first passion.

In 1951, as a sensitive young man of 16 years, Jerry was mesmerized by the talents of song and dance man, Gene Kelly, in the movie "An American in Paris". He went every day for a week to watch the movie, to marvel at the dance moves on the screen, and to come away committed to the pursuit of a career in dance. He found a teacher, mastered some tap steps, managed to dazzle some folks along the way, and even began teaching others.

But, in time he came to realize - as he used to lament so often: "Why was I given this passion for song and dance but not the talent?" -that this was not the career path for him. At this juncture he entered university without a particular goal in mind. He took classes that interested him (mostly literature, poetry, and history), realized that teaching these subjects was the next logical step and embarked upon a career that was to the benefit of all who chose to take his classes. He cared deeply for his students, not just that they should learn the lessons but that they be inspired by the subjects, that they be inspired to experience and appreciate the gifts of the arts.

Connections with family and friends, even strangers - for Jerry no one was a stranger if you made the effort to connect -were the most important thing in his life. His greatest impulse was to take care of others. Though family and friends came first his generosity went beyond them. He couldn't pass by the guy on the street corner asking for food money or receive a donation request from a worthy cause without opening his wallet. If it was encouragement you needed there was no greater champion of your dreams. In this role he gave tirelessly of his time and generously of his wisdom and resources.

And he was funny. Observant and quick witted, Jerry so often found humor in the immediate moment. And, in sharing that insight he made others laugh at life's folly.

And we loved him for it.

Jerry is survived by his devoted wife, extended family and countless friends all of whom were of great importance to him. We all will miss him hugely.