Dear Readers >> Since announcing my departure from writing this syndicated column, I have heard from scores of people across various platforms, thanking me for more than two decades of offering advice and wishing me well in my “retirement.” I am very touched and grateful for this outpouring of support.

The thing is — I don’t think of myself as retiring. I have led a constant, reliable life. I will read even the worst book to the last page. I have never voluntarily left a relationship, an obligation, or any employment.

But I’m leaving this seven-day-a-week commitment — because I want to, and because it’s time. My intention is to move on and to do other meaningful work. The insight I have gained has inspired and empowered me to listen to my own counsel, to be authentic in my actions, and to — basically — be in charge of my own life, as much as possible.

Showing myself the door at this moment reflects the privilege of good health, strong relationships, years of steady employment, and some prudent financial choices. I’m very aware of how lucky I am. The questions raised in this space have been used as teaching tools in middle schools, memory care units, ESL classes and prisons.

On my last day communicating with you in this way, I feel compelled to try to sum up my experience by offering some lasting wisdom, but I’ve got no fresh insight. Everything I know has been distilled from wisdom gathered elsewhere.

Boxer Mike Tyson famously said, “Everybody has a plan, until they get punched ....” Punches are inevitable. But I do believe I’ve learned some universal truths that might soften the blows.

Some are:

•Show up for people.

•Be gentle with yourself — and with others.

•Lead with kindness, and recognize kindness when you receive it.

•Reserve your harshest judgment. Sit on your worst thoughts about other people and consider the consequences before expressing them.

•Be of service by finding something, or someone, to take care of.

•Find creative ways to express your feelings.

•Admit to your faults and failings, and resolve to do better.

•Ask for forgiveness.

•Spend time in nature.

•Respect boundaries — yours and others’.

•Seek the counsel of people who are wiser than you are. Ask their advice, and listen.

Many thanks to Chicago friends and colleagues, including Jim Warren, who found me, Ann Marie Lipinski, who hired me, Steve Mandell, who represented me, and editors Mary Elson, Bill O’Connell and Carrie Williams. Thank you to “Gentleman Jack” Barry, who softened my exit.

And especially to Tracy Clark, a talented novelist who has helped to correct my faulty thinking and grammar for many years.

Finally, much gratitude to faithful readers, who can find me on social media and through my regular newsletter.

Onward!