Q: I have interviewed three times with one company. I believe I am a serious candidate. I have been told that they have narrowed the pool of candidates to two final candidates. I was told by my neighbor — who works at the company — that the final interview might be over a dinner. I don’t drink alcohol and I fear that may be a concern. Do I refrain from drinking or do I order a glass of wine and pretend to drink it?

A: Congratulations on making the final cut. Although, unrelated to your question, I am thrilled that you disclosed how your neighbor has shared information with you about the selection process. Having someone you know “on the inside’’ can be an advantage, especially if your neighbor is a strong performer in his or her role.

Usually at this stage in the process, the interviewers are asking, “Who would work best with me and our team?’’ They often are trying to get a sense of how you communicate and interact with others.

You are smart to have a plan in place before the dinner. First, make sure that you dress appropriately. Make sure that you know where you are going and how you will get there. Is there parking available? Do you need an umbrella? Build in extra time for transportation. Bring a few hard copies of your resume. Arrive about 5 to 10 minutes early to show you are punctual.

Prepare a plan to support your intention not to drink alcohol. Don’t feel like you need to explain why you are not drinking. Instead, say something like, “I think I will pass on the wine, but a sparkling water with lime would be great.’’ Then, move on to the next topic. Those enjoying dinner with you should respect your decision not to drink. If they pressure you, you should question whether this role is a good fit for you. If you are in recovery, that’s far more important than a new job. If a work environment encourages drinking, it may not be the healthiest environment for you.

Finally, be gracious and thank the company representatives for inviting you to dinner. Follow-up with a quick e-mail and/or a thank-you note. Good luck!

Pattie Hunt Sinacole is president of First Beacon Group in Hopkinton.